Sex is Painful & I Feel Nothing During Masturbation

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Sex is Painful & I Feel Nothing During Masturbation

For many years I experienced thrush, BV or candida, they are symptoms of vaginal discomfort that can also cause irritation in and around the vulva. Often the cause of stress, stressed liver according to TCM and possibly caused by the wrong douches. I am all about washing with warm water and fragrance free soaps. I am currently a big fan of Tallow, yes you heard it, Beef fat, healthy and very nourishing for the skin.

Back to why sex can be painful, it's an issue that effects too many women and the reasons are varied. For now I'd like to focus on why thrush or VB can cause pain during sex.

I knew back then the reason for my out break in thrush had to do with finding out my Dad was very sick, my body went into shock, fear and despair. It took me months to clear it up. Avoiding inflammatory foods, alcohol, I did everything from over the counter ointments to herbal supplementation, bathing myself in yogurt the list goes on. In the end it cleared away. I have no doubt it all helped apart from the over the counter Candida cream that left me feeling like crispy bacon inside.

More recently I have had a case of thrush again, its not so bad but the imbalance is preventing me from enjoying penetration.

What happens to the vaginal environment and vulva tissue is bacteria inflames the skin, this causes less lubrication as well, our natural nectar that flows from our body during arousal acts as a first class lubricant while also moisturising the internal muscles of the vaginal cortex. If there is an imbalance the environment is going to be unhappy and as a result uncomfortable. FEAR not my friends all this can be transformed.

I called my TCM Dr, Dr Cora from Gin Sen, she has prescribed me with all the TCM I need. For those who are not familiar. TCM stands for Traditional Chinese Medicine. She said I have too much water in my system. Turns out I've been drinking to much water, who'd have thought. I'm small and I was drinking up to 3Ltrs a day!!!!

It's incredible how long we live with issues before taking action. I learned my liver was still strained and so this could be the cause of my thrush. The bodies way of telling me something... drink less.

Have you been stressed, she asked. I don't think so, maybe, yes, I have been stressed. Stress is a major factor in any hormonal dis regulation.

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